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Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Happy New Year 2013

(Originally, this was a letter we sent out early February 2013.)

WE MOVED December 27, 2012. On January 27th, we invited a group of friends over to our new home to dedicate it to God’s glory. Listen in to a few things that were shared that day.

A Brief History and Testimonial of God’s Miracle of 3420 Silver Lane.

In May 1983 we moved into the dream home we built on Golden Lake at 21% interest rate. Two years later Jim was unemployed for the second time and we thought we’d lose the house.

In 1997, Jim bought Roscoe sales agency from his partner Bob and Jim and I had a little business we had dreamed of owning. Through some business reversals we decided to move the office into the lower level of our Golden Lake home. We changed the name to Sales Team but kept struggling to keep it afloat.

Jim worked with a Life Coach for help in selling Sales Team. A creative idea emerged as Jim worked with Joe to merge Sales Team into Gift Street in 2006. I was hired to continue doing many of the same tasks I had done at Sales Team. The merger entailed Jim becoming the sales manager for Gift Street with a small commissioned sales territory. After two years Joe needed to downsize the business and Jim was no longer the sales manager but was given a larger sales territory. The debt just kept dogging Jim until he decided to declare bankruptcy in 2010.

I was laid off from Gift Street December 2008 three months after my open heart surgery. It took me two years to find my current job at Christos Center for Spiritual Formation. This was a great addition of finances for our situation. Friends, Dan and Judy, helped us find a good used car to replace the ailing Honda and I had reliable wheels once again.

I enjoyed developing the gardens at our Golden Lake home and never thought that I would leave there. I thought instead that I would hire help and continue to live there well past retirement. Two summers ago, I came in from working on the steep back hill with my body screaming at me to stop this nonsense. I cried out to God saying I can’t do this anymore. Immediately, I sensed God saying it was time to move. My response was a mixture of relief and a strong sense of fear that given our debt and the bankruptcy would make it impossible. We considered renting. Jim talked to our banker and determined that he could qualify for a mortgage despite bankruptcy.

We hired a realtor recommended by a neighbor. That was a godsend that got us in touch with a sharp mortgage broker who told Jim what mortgage amount we could qualify for and then we started looking at townhomes. We spent last year downsizing: filling the recycle bucket again and again; giving items away to charity or from the end of the driveway; hauling old electrical stuff to Best Buy’s free recycling program; selling items on Craigslist; tossing the junk. This spring we hope to hook up with anyone who wants to do a garage sale with all our leftover garden and yard tools.

As we looked at townhomes we began to realize that we needed a space larger than a typical bedroom to house Jim’s office equipment. Still when we kept coming back to the Silver Lane house, vacant, it seemed too large for us. In fact, I was led of God to pray a Prayer of Relinquishment over the house. I prayed that in earnest not knowing how God would bless us. I kept saying up to the day of closing that I will not believe it is mine until I have the key and garage door remote in my hand.

Despite those reservations I believed that God wanted us to move and I left the final address up to him. All the while we continued to sort, clean out, give away and pack up the Golden Lake home. One mortgage company denied us because the bankruptcy was too recent. We went through all the paperwork again for a second attempt. This whole process of applying for a mortgage was not an easy time emotionally for Jim. He had to slog back through all the bankruptcy mess and answer questions. We wanted to be done with that. We wanted God to redeem all of that mess.

Well friends, redemption is happening. Even with selling Golden Lake “as is” for the new owner to remodel how they want, we received a good price enabling us to pay off some debt, with money left over for our own remodeling dreams at 3420 Silver Lane. We will have less cash outlay each month. And Jim has a big room for his office; he is enjoying having everything close at hand so that he can continue to grow his business. We feel a sense of financial freedom for the first time in many, many years.

Deuteronomy 6:10-12 The Message (MSG) When GOD, your God, ushers you into the land he promised through your ancestors Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob to give you, you’re going to walk into large, bustling cities you didn’t build, well-furnished houses you didn’t buy, come upon wells you didn’t dig, vine-yards and olive orchards you didn’t plant. When you take it all in and settle down, pleased and content, make sure you don’t forget how you got there—GOD brought you out of slavery in Egypt.”

        After reading this scripture, Jim shared that we were enslaved to the debt.

Celebrate with us God’s faithfulness as we dedicate this home for God’s glory.
A friend read this blessing at our home dedication:

Blessing for a New Home

May this house shelter your life.
When you come in home here,
May all the weight of the world
Fall from your shoulders.

May your heart be tranquil here,
Blessed by peace the world cannot give.

May this home be a fortunate place,
Where the graces your life desires
Always find the pathway to your door.

May nothing destructive
Ever cross your threshold.

May this be a safe place
Full of understanding and acceptance,
Where you can be as you are,
Without the need of any mask
Of pretense or image.

May this home be a place of discovery,
Where the possibilities that sleep
In the clay of your soul can emerge
To deepen and refine your vision
For all that is yet to come to birth.

May it be a house of courage,
Where healing and growth are loved,
Where dignity and forgiveness prevail;
A home where patience of spirit is prized,
And the sight of the destination is never lost
Though the journey be difficult and slow.
May there be great delight around this hearth.
May it be a house of welcome
For the broken and diminished.

May you have the eyes to see
That no visitor arrives without a gift
And no guest leaves without a blessing.

        [Adapted from To Bless the Space Between Us by John O’Donohue]

It was a wonderful afternoon of celebrating God’s goodness with dear friends who have journeyed alongside us through all of the highs and lows. To God be the glory for the great things he has done! 
 
How have you experienced God’s blessing over the course of your life? Celebrate what God has done!

Photos from the Dedication:





 

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